Birth.debrief.
So you did the work…or thought you did.
You paid for the courses.
You drowned yourself in successful freebirth and homebirth stories.
You spoke your fears out loud.
You visualised your dream birth.
Maybe you even hired the wise woman support.
But your birth still didn't unfold as you had hoped.
You've been left feeling blind sided, heart broken and confused.
Why? Why did it not work out for you when it seems to have worked out for so many?
You made the intentional choices to birth in your own home. You understood the disturbances that can sabotage the birth process and took steps to minimise, even eliminate them.
Maybe you were sold the story that your birth process would be automatic - you are a mammal after all...
Maybe since your birth you’ve been afraid to utter the words of what happened for fear of the ,“I told you so” from those who didn’t understand your choices to begin with.
Or you feel shame and fear of being judged by those women in your circles who did the same work as you and who's births turned out the way they wanted.
You're asking yourself, "Was it my fault? What did I do wrong?"
I’m here to offer to you the truth that, despite all of this - all of your disappointment, your shame, your anger, your sadness - that deep healing for you is still possible and you are
so worthy of it.
That that journey of understanding ourselves, our bodies and our decision making can hold the key to unlocking what you desperately want to feel when thinking about your birth…
You want to feel at peace.
You want to feel softness.
To feel the burden lifted.
To understand the why.
To feel tenderness and love for the women you were on that day.
To let go of resentment.
To feel hopeful in where your mothering and birth journey will take you in the future, with great self-respect for how you make decisions as a woman and a mother.
Let’s work together to get you to this place. Let me listen to you, hold you, love you and be by your side to navigate your unpacking of your birth experience.
This intentional Birth Debrief container is designed not only to allow the telling of your story without self-censorship, but to create long term integration of all the learning there is within your story to allow transformation and healing.
In this container we will have:
One 2 hour session for you to speak your birth journey outloud. Everything is welcome here. The outpouring of whatever words and emotions need to be released.
Followed by 2 weeks of unlimited voice messaging via the app Voxer. To visit what comes up for you after the release of your story. What have you noticed? What has become clear? What feels like it needs more exploration?
One 1 hr follow up session in the weeks that follow, to integrate all you’ve uncovered, exploring the transformation in this deep dive and to close the birth debrief process together with a look to the future full of softness and hope.
This package is £360
To explore a if work with me in this container is the right thing for you - email me at felicityinbirth@gmail.com or DM me on Instagram @felicityinbirth to book a free clarity call.